4th of July = fun! fun! fun!

This weekend was awfully nice - even though it was mid-upper-90s (a little nutso for Portland). We ate out at new restaurants for breakfast both Saturday and Sunday, got a ton of unpacking done, slept the last two nights - all four of us - out in the sun room because it gets the best breeze, hung out, drank beer, continued to set-up house. We even squeezed in both a two-year-old's birthday party and a family picnic. PLUS we took the girls to watch the fireworks from one of the bridges right near where they were being let off. We had a spectacular view! They were loud but not unsafely loud. The Bug was very scared at first, but I explained to her that they were rockets just like in her Jamberry book and she immediately became intrigued. She was very attentive and watched the rest of the show carefully (while holding onto me tightly). Belly was alarmed at first, too, but after she realized that we were fine, she watched for a little while and then looked around like, "So what's next?" That's how she is - cool as a cucumber. Oh! And I made margaritas last night. So freaking good, I tell you. SO good.


You know how kids will tell you how it is? There was a five-year-old girl who was playing with Belly and the Bug in the park at our 4th of July picnic (it was a community event for families). I was helping someone move playground equipment when they started playing and as I walked up, the little girl asked if I was their babysitter. I cheerily said, "Nope! I'm their mom!" She looked at me with a very confused expression and shook her head. She asked, "How come you and their dad are white and they're black?" Ummm, what? I asked her what she meant and she repeated herself. I said, "They're not black - they just have olive skin." She totally looked at me like I was trying to pull one over on her. She dropped it, though, and went on to send my girls into absolute fits of giggles as she held their hands and helped them run faster than they've ever gone before. When we left, she gave them each a hug and a kiss and said, "I hope you have sweet dreams!" What a little cutie-pie...although I'm still confused as to why she thought the girls are black. Did she look at them?! Funny.

2 comments:

Bridget McCarthy said...

You could have totally schooled that 5-yr old on "Heredity: Dominant versus Recessive Genes." I bet then she wouldn't wonder out loud!

My youngest's good friend has light black skin, but her older brother has very dark black skin, and the other brother is very fair-skinned and looks Hispanic. They've been friends for years - but when the question of why they all had different colored skin I just said, "oh, it depends on what color God wanted to use that day." She looked at me like I was an idiot and said matter-of-factly: "Mom. God doesn't use CRAYONS to color skin." and walked off seemingly annoyed with me....

Bridget McCarthy said...

... and next time I'll try to proof read so the comment actually makes sense...